twists & turns

There are no fairy tales in the world. It exist in the make believe wonder we have in our heads. Just like Alice in Wonderland. Look at Princess Di..hers was a fairy tale love story and wedding. Where did it end? For her, in a tunnel in Paris. Met an old friend and i had the hunch she was going to tell me her marriage was over. For me, when i first saw them as a couple in U, i was full of envy. There was this "model"couple, she pretty and sweet, he handsome and tall. Not to mention, the same education match. When she told me it was over, was i surprised? No, not to say i was trying to be bitchy..but years ago, i thought i saw the cracks. But then, i was not married then, so who is to judge? Oops, now i remember, i was the bridesmaid at their wedding. I am so happy for her not because they have decided to separate but that they had the guts to both sit down and think it through and agree to separate and not blame each other. I sincerely from the bottom of my heart, wish for her happiness and that she finds true love again. Trying to fulfill another fantasy? No. True love can be found irrespective of your age. Therein life offers its many twists and turns. Do we want to go with the flow? "Some people misunderstand the concept of karma. They take the Buddha's doctrine of the law of causality to mean that all is predetermined, that there is nothing the individual can do. This is a total misunderstanding. The very term karma or action is a term of active force, which indicates that future events are within your hands. " "Since action is a phenomenon that is committed by a person, a living being, it is within your own hands whether or not you engage in actions."